I remember you!

I remember you!

We went on a couple of dates last year and we hung out for a little while we had a good time.

However, it was like you could not make up your mind about what next or something/someone was holding you back.

I was trying a new thing like Joan in Girlfriends, a 3 month rule.

You were studying I was working 3 jobs and time was always an issue for both of us.

But if you do want to be with someone you make time not the sort of time where we live in each others pockets but a bit of time.

So I got bored, my self defense mechanism kicked in and I distanced myself.

So it was a surprise to hear from you 7 months after we last spoke. You seem to want to resume where we left off. I don't. Not being harsh just being real. I haven't been waiting on tenterhooks for you to finish your studies, congratulations by the way. I haven't been waiting in the little neat box marked one for later either, I've been living my life and forgot all about you.

I'm sure we'll talk on the phone, maybe even meet for a drink if the mood takes me but no more.

Was it a datetastic or disaster? It was actually a mixture of both.

I get it

I met (well not met) but got talking to someone who is a friend of a friend of a friend. It was one of those moments where either you let your guard down or you find you have so many things in common that it freaks you out a bit.
Then you get to know the person a little bit more and they spend a whole lotta time deflecting conversation onto how many women hit on them constantly on a daily or even hourly basis.

So........I get it. We shared some good conversation and I thought for a minute that perhaps......

However, I've had time to think on it and I've decided I don't want to be described with in the category of another one of those women trying a ting/being a stalker/trying to be with me etc etc.

I've moved on. Conversation was nice and all but that is all it was conversation.
Onwards and upwards always, the glass is never half empty it's always half full.

The biggest and the smallest

I have decided that the guys with the biggest chat have the smallest dicks.

I don't have definitive proof as I don't give the big talkers the time of day but I bet I am right!

Lots of my friends both guys and girls are single and it seems to not just be me in this dilemma of not being able to find a suitable partner.

My bullish dectector is set to high so I am just not feeling some of the approaches that are coming my way.

More to follow. I know I am due to write about photos on dating sites it is on my to do list.

Been a while

It's been a while. I have been completely inactive on the dating front I have had a lot going on.

I also got caught up in the Michael Jackson story. I idolised Michael as a teenager and posters of him were all over my bedroom walls. I got upset at the behaviour of his father who I think caused most of the problems in Michael's life. His comments about not beating Michael but whipping him really disgusted me. I got upset at the thought of the hangers on giving him drugs and not taking care of his real needs just lining their pockets at the expense of a very very talented man. I got upset that his family were not able to intervene before it was too late. I got upset about a lot of things none of which I can change.

All I can do is celebrate the joy Michael brought to peoples lives through his music and not dwell on the bad. He really is in a better place now I just pray that the children he loved so much and tried to protect from the world get to live some sort of 'normal' life.

I feel better for getting that off my chest. Rest In Peace Michael.

Ghetto toes

I know it has nothing to do with dating but someone needs to explain why the trend is for toe nails especially the big toe nail that hangs over the edge of your sandals/flip flops/summer shoes. I don't get it please explain.

Anyway rant over. I've been quiet on the dating scene I kinda got annoyed by the whole thing because I've had some bad first dates and I've not managed to get to date number two so I need to up my selection process.

Unfortunately this makes me look like I think too much of myself in the eyes of some guys which is fine because I don't even need to worry about date number one!

I got a good tip from a friend which was to get a close up picture of the face of the guy I am going to meet. All these half angles, pictures of famous people, pictures of cars everything but the guy is suspicious.

I'm going to talk about a blurry picture but I'll leave that and what pictures don't work for another time.

WTF I need to say no more to this strange and real request this is NOT made up!

Hiya, Yes, apology’s up front it's one of those naughty requests.... If this isn't for you then I’m sorry to have disturbed you. I'm looking for an attractive, understanding lady who wouldn't mind helping me to relive some tension. All I'm asking for is to have you watch me while I play on cam. It's just a kink of mine, nothing sinister. Ideally I like to be on the phone as well. As I said, all you have to do is watch. You don’t need a cam and as for the phone, I’m not expecting any dirty talk or anything like that, just a hello to prove you are who you say you are. All strange I know but it is just a kink of mine. If I haven't offended you and you are able to help, even if you are just curious then please add me to your msn. Mine is cheekyfaceuk@blahblah.com Hope to see or hear you soon, Paul x

What's in a name?

What is in a name? I find myself getting annoyed when people spell my name incorrectly even when it is written in front of them. Why would you take the time to e-mail someone on one of these 'dating' sites and call them something completely different? Makes you wonder.

Then again I think I may have upset someone by taking the mickey about how their name was spelt. I have not had a reply from this person so I can only assume they were offended.

That made me think about the shoe being on the other foot phrase. I will make a real effort to be considerate when corresponding with people......but if you spell my name wrong I WILL ignore you!

Tomorrow I'll talk about generic e-mails and how easy it is to spot them,my advice is to make an effort be original it's hard work but it may pay off and you may get the chance to serve me or some other young lady super noodles!